After 28 years of teaching, training, instructing and counseling people of every age and on every level the title of this segment is an absolute truth. I personally trained people in the secular corporate world and a ministerial church, college world.
My first several years in business I found quickly that Mental Assent is an enemy to a goal. It disguises itself to the speaker, comes with an agreeable expression and often with body language that says “I understand”, only to later find it went nowhere in the hearer. So as any good trainer, teacher etc., an immediate repositioning occurs as to how you reapproach what was obviously an overlooked lesson. Only to later find that some people never really get it!
There are 2 points of thought here:
1) If you are the teacher, trainer etc… do not get discouraged by people who listen and yet never respond. It is the old …you can take a horse to water but you can’t make them drink adage. It does not diminish your message or your technique. It is simply what the scripture states by Jesus himself… those who have an ear to hear… hear what the spirit is saying. This is obviously not speaking of an actual ear it is speaking of the ability to receive what is said. When information is received it is incorporated into the thought process and now will allow new method to solve or redefine a thing.
2) If you are the person who sits, listens and readily agrees yet never applies that which is spoken to you…..STOP IT, YOU ARE DRIVING THE REST OF US CRAZY!! This person will complain the rest of their life that nothing ever changes for them. Same issues year after year with no resolve!! Unfortunately some people find their worth in the complaint and some just don’t know how to get out of this vicious cycle. STOP!! Evaluate what you want different, find out real information on how to make the change, make a plan, AND DO IT!! Make yourself follow through!! One small victory at a time will set a new precedent in your life, and will encourage you to tackle the next thing so your tomorrow will be greater than your yesterday. One thing I would encourage greatly is get a “real friend” who will tell you the truth and hold you accountable to the things you know you need to do!! I am talking about a person who will tell you when you look fat in that outfit or food is stuck in your teeth friend….not the American Idol lying friend who tells someone they are great, only to appear in the worse of the worst reels on the commercials!!!

Enough about Mental Assent…..Let’s tackle Good Intentions…
As I stated earlier that my time in the secular arena it was all about Mental Assent, but when I taught in the church world it also incorporated the concept of good intentions. Usually this occurs when we make a decision to do something due to our emotions at the time. I saw a need so ….. I know I should so…..on and on. The problem with this is that we think it is ok to commit to a thing when we feel like it, knowing we should, and later when the emotions are no longer strong and the need is no longer in our immediate view, we change our mind. We don’t say we change our mind we simply never follow through! We say things to make ourselves feel better about not accomplishing something we know we should do…..The Lord knows my heart…. I would if I could BUT….I guess I still could if you really want me too…on and on. This is prevalent in the church world. There is this strange religious mindset that says you have to forgive me, the Lord forgives me! Using grace as an excuse to come up short as a person is not what God had in mind! The scripture teaches us …let your Yes be Yes or your No be No!…..what is worse the son who says no and then does it or the son who says yes and then doesn’t. It is clear in the word it is far worse for the son that says he will and does not bother to. These people usually find it gratifying enough just to talk about what they want to do and never accomplish a thing! Good intentions benefit no one without corresponding actions. Faith without works is dead. So how do I change if I am a person who has good intentions and yet never accomplishes them. First, choose well what you commit to … Those who build a house must first consider the cost of the house to determine if they have enough to finish it … don’t start a thing you have no intention on finishing. Do not make an emotional decision make a qualified one. If I start it will I finish it? If the answer is no than do not start!! If the answer is yes, then make a plan and DO IT!! Do not give yourself an excuse to make yourself feel better about yet another failed attempt at what is right!! You can change this and become an effective person at everything you put your hand to. Choose you this day!!!

AFTER YEARS OF TELLING PEOPLE CHEMOTHERAPY IS THE ONLY WAY TO TRY (’TRY, BEING THE KEY WORD) TO ELIMINATE CANCER, JOHNS HOPKINS IS FINALLY STARTING TO TELL YOU THERE IS AN ALTERNATIVE WAY.
Cancer Update from Johns Hopkins :

1. Every person has cancer cells in the body. These cancer cells do not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a few billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no more cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the tests are unable to detect the cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size.

2. Cancer cells occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person’s lifetime.

3. When the person’s immune system is strong the cancer cells will be destroyed and prevented from multiplying and forming tumors.

4. When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple nutritional deficiencies. These could be due to genetic, environmental, food and lifestyle factors.

5. To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies, changing diet and including supplements will strengthen the immune system.

6. Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly-growing cancer cells and also destroys rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow, gastrointestinal tract etc, and can cause organ damage, like liver, kidneys, heart, lungs etc.

7. Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and damages healthy cells, tissues and organs.

8. Initial treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often reduce tumor size. However prolonged use of chemotherapy and radiation do not result in more tumor destruction.

9. When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and radiation the immune system is either compromised or destroyed, hence the person can succumb to various kinds of infections and complications.

10. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and become resistant and difficult to destroy. Surgery can also cause cancer cells to spread to other sites.

11. An effective way to battle=2 0cancer is to starve the cancer cells by not feeding it with the foods it needs to multiply.

CANCER CELLS FEED ON:

a. Sugar is a cancer-feeder. By cutting off sugar it cuts off one important food supply to the cancer cells. Sugar substitutes like NutraSweet, Equal, Spoonful, etc. are made with Aspartame and it is harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or molasses but only in very small amounts. Table salt has a chemical added to make it white in colour. Better alternative is Bragg’s aminos or sea salt.

b. Milk causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the gastro-intestinal tract. Cancer feeds on mucus. By cutting off milk and substituting with unsweetened soy milk cancer cells are being starved.

c. Cancer cells thrive in an acid environment. A meat-based diet is acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than beef or pork. Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth hormones and parasites, which are all harmful, especially to people with cancer.

d. A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains, seeds, nuts and a little fruits help put the body into an alkaline environment. About 20% can be from cooked food including beans. Fresh vegetable juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed and reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes to nourish and enhance growth of healthy cells. To obtain live enzymes for building healthy cells try and drink fresh vegetable juice (most vegetables including bean sprouts) and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a day. Enzymes are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40 degrees C).

e. Avoid cof fee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine. Green tea is a better alternative and has cancer fighting properties. Water-best to drink purified water, or filtered, to avoid known toxins and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is acidic, avoid it.

f. Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of digestive enzymes. Undigested meat remaining in the intestines become putrified and leads to more toxic buildup.

g. Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining from or eating less meat i cancer cells and allows the body’s killer cells to destroy the cancer cells.

h. Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Flor-ssence, Essiac, anti-oxidant s, vitamins, minerals, EFAs etc.) to enable the body’s own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements like vitamin E are known to cause apoptosis, or programmed cell death, the body’s normal method of disposing of damaged, unwanted, or unneeded cells.

i.Cancer is a disease of the mind, body, and spirit. A proactive and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor. Anger, unforgiveness and bitterness put the body into a stressful and acidic environment. Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit. Learn to relax and enjoy life.

j. Cancer cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment. Exercising daily, and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to the cellular level. Oxygen therapy is another means employed to destroy cancer cells.

CANCER UPDATE FROM JOHN HOPKINS HOSPITAL , U S - PLEASE READ

1. No plastic containers in micro.

2. No water bottles in freezer.

3. No plastic wrap in microwave.

Johns Hopkins has recently sent this out in its newsletters. This information is being circulated at Walter Reed Army Medical Center as well. Dioxin chemicals causes cancer, especially breast cancer. Dioxins are highly poisonous to the cells of our bodies. Don’t freeze your plastic bottles with water in them as this releases dioxins from the plastic. Recently, Dr. Edward Fujimoto, Wellness Program Manager at Castle Hospital , was on a TV program to explain this health hazard. He talked about dioxins and how bad they are for us. He said that we should not be heating our food in the microwave using plastic containers. This especially applies to foods that contain fat. He said that the combination of fat, high heat, and plastics releases dioxin into the food and ultimately into the cells of the body. Instead, he recommends using glass, such as Corning Ware, Pyrex or cerami containers for heating food. You get the same results, only without the dioxin. So such things as TV dinners, instant ramen and soups, etc., should be removed from the20container and heated in something else. Paper isn’t bad but you don’t know what is in the paper. It’s just safer to use tempered glass, Corning Ware, etc. He reminded us that a while ago some of the fast food restaurants moved away from the foam containers to paper. The dioxin problem is one of the reasons.

Also, he pointed out that plastic wrap, such as Saran, is just as dangerous when placed over foods to be cooked in the microwave. As the food is nuked, the high heat causes poisonous toxins to actually melt out of the plastic wrap and drip into the food. Cover food with a paper towel instead.

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These days life is coming at us at such an aggressive pace it is almost unfathomable to believe it will ever level out. Our nation and our world in crisis! If we are not hearing about how everything will fall apart if we don’t react immediately we are hearing about how our quick reaction has now put us in a debt that our grandchildren cannot recover! Finding that all of our Congress and Senate were so driven to solve the problem they never even read the supposed solution. All of them have admitted that none of them even read what they had passed ,they all read their portion only!! With the leaders of our country screaming Sign It or it is complete devastation!! I wonder what is worse… the problem..or the supposed solution.
This reaction unfortunately is too often our position to life altering situations. Something comes at us hard and fast and instead of taking the time to stop!! We simply react! There are 2 ways to handle a hard situation. 1 and unfortunately the most popular…..REACT and the other is a Proactive solution. When we quickly react, the situation has all the control ,which causes more fear and is never a proper evaluation. One of the worst things we can do is to quickly respond without the full picture. When fear grips you panic follows and everything is distorted in panic and fear. Our emotions are raging and anytime we make a life altering decision based on emotions we have used the lowest level of evaluation to decide and are rarely ever right. Have you ever noticed that at night the fear gets the worse. I have laid there in my bed before for hours worrying about something only to find the next morning it might be bad but not that bad! The reason things don’t seem quite as bad in the morning is we have let our emotions calm down and have had time to process the full picture!! When the problem seems like there is no solution you simply have not looked at all the possibilities of resolve. The answer is out there you simply have not yet found it. You need to step back, breath, look at the full picture(good and bad)call it what it is and begin a plan to resolve. We would like to think all things can be fixed in a minute but many times it is a process.
So more later on how to walk it out but I just wanted to encourage you with this………..
IT IS NOT WHAT COMES AT YOU ……….ITS WHAT YOU DO WITH IT!!
Blessings

The greatest thing about life in God is knowing that He is always there. Even when it seems you are all alone in the world, when you think all others have forsaken you. God will always be but a prayer or yell away. Oh, He may not answer the way you think He will or give you the answer you are looking for. He knows what we are in need of before we can ask or in some cases demand from Him. The word of God says “He knows what we have need of before we ask” “He will do exceedingly, abundantly above all we can ask or think according to the power of God that works within us” Eph 2. The key here is that the power of God works in us. This means we have to learn to put our trust in Him and, yes sometimes, put our faith in the fact that He is always there waiting on us to look to Him. In my experience God will put someone in my path to lead me the right way. All I have to do is look ahead and not behind, look to the future and not the past or the present. Remember this and I believe it will help a lot, “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”.

Used to be all you have to do is turn on the TV or read a paper (do people even still read papers or is it all online now) to find out things were steadily getting worse. Nowadays you only speak to family, friends or neighbors. No need to go any further. The economy has taken its toll on so many good people. I saw a news clip the other morning that spoke about a local theme park that was hiring minimum wage positions and how many thousands showed up for the jobs. They interviewed one of the lucky few that got hired. It was a woman in her 40s that was making over $70,000 annually just a few months before. She appeared grateful that she even got the job!! I have a Dr. friend of ours that has a practice in California that serves the underprivileged for medical care. He has shared with us that Attorney’s, Brokers, Executives, etc……..are now flooding the system due to loss of employment.
I started looking up some statistics and found the following:
Over 3.3 million jobs were lost in the last 6 months, 663,000 in March alone.
The national average unemployment rate is now at 8.5% and expecting to climb dramatically. With some states up to 13%. No one can count on long term employment, loyalty of a company taking care of you, 401Ks, retirement or investments.
It is the best of times….It is the worst of times….
So what is the answer? You need to find a source of income that you control. That no one can fire you from, steal, or mismanage for you.
Network Marketing–Donald Trump, President Clinton,Robert Kiyosaki (rich dad,poor dad) over 200 business schools including Harvard promotes network marketing as an answer to all these issues.
Harvard states:
*The company should have a product which is unique and highly consumable, unique in this case means that you have an exclusive product that can only be purchased from your company’s distributors. Having a product that is highly consumable means repeated sales, thereby guaranteeing customers loyalty versus a one time sale and having to locate new customers.
*Harvard Business School also stated that if there were less than 500,000 people involved, you It needs to be a “ground floor” opportunity. Harvard Business School suggests that in order for the opportunity to qualify as “ground floor” the number of existing active distributors should be would be on the cutting edge of a great opportunity. If the company has less than 100,000 distributors, Harvard Business School considers it to be a once in a lifetime opportunity.

WELL, I HAVE THAT PRODUCT AND THE OPPORTUNITY THAT QUALIFIES AS A ONCE IN A LIFETIME!!!

The product is “Mila” It is being declared as the #1 delivery system for omega 3s in the world.
The medical and scientific communities are in agreement that Omega 3s are essential and have for the last few years saying it everywhere. Doctors everywhere are telling people to take their Omega 3s, unfortunately that is usually in the form of fish oil. (disgusting and no one I know wants to burp fish all day)
It is amazing and the health benefits are off the chart!! Doctors, scientists, nutritionists,all saying the same thing… the Omega 3 market was 20 billion dollar industry last year with only 2% of the worlds population.. the expected growth of Omega 3s is 10-20% in the next 3 to 5 years, making it a 200-400 billion dollar industry. The good part… There are only 3 things on the market to fulfill that growth.
*Fish oil- low absorption, taste and odor issues, not for children or anyone with a social life.
*Flax seed- Not even approved with the FDA. They cannot even get “generally regarded as safe” status.
*MILA- Whole raw seed, FDA gave a food status with no warnings!!!, No taste, no odor, safe for children.
It has had a team of scientists developing it for 18 years and hit the market officially in Oct. 2008!!!
Cardiologists,Pediatricians,Gastroenterologists,Dermatologists,Clinical Psychologists,Nutritionists..on and on..
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I have added clips of what President Clinton and Robert Kiyosaki say about Network Marketing!!
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As a woman kissing 50 and all the things that come with that…..Life has changed.   Dr. Vernon  got his notice from the AARP and thought I had told on him!! We have been together for 35 years and  often laugh and reminisce about when we were young.   How we would lay on our backs looking at the sky and vowing how we would grow old together. Never actually thinking it would happen to us and surely not like this!

Seeking for the last several years for a healthier life for my husband, sons, daughters and grandchildren . What a challenge this has become. Looking for a healthy offset to our lives.  Some things can be changed but our healthy food is not even the same and no longer has close to the food value it had even when I was a kid.  Over these years I have watched families trying to survive and balance their lives.  But between a dual income (check out our Life of Wealth category) needed for most and parents already run ragged before they even get home the importance of proper eating and nutrition is no longer high on our lists. Knowing these habits are diminishing the health of all what is the remedy. We have counseled and prayed for so many that had health issues over the years to only find it getting worse.  So I went looking for some answers for myself ,family and all I care about.  Over the last few years i found a resounding theme!!  We need Omega 3s!!  The medical and scientific communities are all a rage for Omega 3s.   I have heard from Cardiologists, Gastroenterologists, Pediatricians,Dermatologists, Chiropractors, Nutritionists and behavioral specialists (myself included)and all agree to the importance of Omega 3s in all of these areas.

Below is a must see video on Omega 3s -

This is the amazing offset to our lifestyles I had been searching for… It changed all of our lives!!
More later………….

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